There are some songs that, when heard, instantly affect the listener’s loins. Granted, the songs may vary from person to person; but some artists are known for their ability to make the listeners want to get it on, such as Barry White, with his deep, sensual voice.
Perhaps the song’s subject matter is what does the trick. Maybe it is the beat. Then there are the ones that are double shots of desire to the genitals. One that does it for me, due to both the lyrics and the tempo, is Nine Inch Nails Closer. Another is the Dave Matthews
Band’s song Crash into Me.And I would be rather remiss if I didn’t mention Marvin Gaye’s classic Let’s Get it On.
What does it for you?Is there a song that every time you hear it you want to do the horizontal mambo with your lover? How about your partner – does she have a song that is always sure to turn her on?
There is something about corsets that just turns me on. My skin being tightly enclosed by the fabric. My breasts being lifted and showcased. My waist being cinched smaller by the satiny ribbon. Wearing a sexy corset is a surefire way to make me feel sensual.
I have purchased several corsets over the years, but only three fit me properly. Being a plus-sized woman means finding lingerie that is sexy is difficult. Thanks to eBay, I can find brand-new-with-tags corsets that are as affordable as they are hot.
There are many factors to consider when buying a corset, as there are many types of corsets available. Enclosures, boning, material, and styles all vary. Do you like the look of a laced corset? Maybe you want one with laces, but that also has a zipper. Should the boning be plastic or metal? Which suits your purpose better: overbust or underbust? So many decisions! It can feel a little overwhelming to the first-time buyer.
Ebay has a guide available that gives a brief overview of the different shapes of corsets and explains which corset is best for various body types.
Underbust vs. Overbust
Just as it sounds. An underbust corset goes under the bust, leaving the wearer’s breasts exposed. Overbust corsets cover the wearer’s breasts, pushing them against her body and producing cleavage.
Laces – The traditional style of corset, with laces to pull tighter. Laces are most often in the back of the corset.
Hook & Eye –A metal hook and an eye (or “eyelet”) into which the hook fits. Usually made of metal, this enclosure style is most frequently found in the front of the corset.
Zipper – This style of corset fastens with a zipper, which may be either on the sides or the front.
Combination – A combination of the above styles of enclosures.
It seems to me that whenever I read an erotica story where the female is not a size 6, she is referred to as big or needing to lose weight. I just finished a story tonight where the main character was a size 14 and her co-workers had told her that she should go to the gym and that is why she didn’t have a man in her life. But when she mentions it to the man, he says how he loves her curves and that she has a brain. And of course, being a bigger size means that she has big boobs and a big ass which is not always the case either.
But in reality, is a size 14 that big? In checking it on the Internet, Marilyn Monroe was likely a size 8 or 10 in today’s clothing sizes (see link at end of rant from Snopes). But she was considered a huge sex symbol. Is a 14 all that much bigger than what she was? And of course, in her movies, she was dressed to accent her curves and show herself off.
For the most part, the woman’s size really should not be a factor in these books. Shouldn’t the focus be more on her curves and how they drive their potential partner wild? How about the tricks that she has up her sleeves and how she can turn her partner into someone who cannot even remember their name or how to breathe? To me, that is more important than what a characters dress or jeans size.
Heck, I have even found a series of erotica books on Amazon that are a BBW series but the characters size is a 14 or 16. To me, that isn’t BBW, that is the average North American Woman.