I know in baseball it takes 3 strikes before you are out, but well, we aren’t talking baseball.
For some reason, I seem to run into these guys who I meet up with once or maybe twice, and then they disappear. A few months, or even a year later, I run into them again. They express their interest, I am way too nice and agree to meet up again, and then the pattern continues. After this happens the second time, I am done with them, no matter what their reason, er, excuse may be. You would think after this happened the first time or two in general I would learn my lesson but I am way too nice of a person.
What I don’t get is the ease at which a person can keep in touch. With the majority of people having access to a smartphone as well as email, there is no reason that a quick little message can’t be sent. Heck, I have even discussed this with some of these people that ultimately disappear and they agree that there is no reason why a person cannot send a message. Yet, a message does not appear.
I understand that for some, this is the route they take when they decide that there is no interest. Instead of doing the polite thing and sending a message that they changed their mind/life is too busy/whatever the reason is, they just ignore you. I get it, I may be guilty of doing it once or twice and I have been called out on it too.
But really, I am a big girl, if you aren’t interested, just tell me. I’m not going to go all stalker on you and contact you every half hour to try and get you to change your mind. I will move on, there are many other fish and maybe even men in the sea.