I’ve been playing on adult sites (such as AdultFriendFinder) for well over a year now. I have run into a wide variety of people, some good, some bad, and some just interesting. They all have their own opinions which may or may not coincide with mine which is fine. But this weekend, I met someone who had different ideas and made a lot of assumptions about m based on this.
First of all, I do not have a profile picture up, at least not a face picture or anything intimate. I have a picture of my lakes soaking in a mineral pool. You can put up whatever you want on these sites. A lot of men have pictures of well, you can imagine. And I’m sure there are a lot of women out there who have very similar pictures. but I have also seen a lot of men who have pictures up that do not show anything that personal, maybe a chest and maybe even a photo showing their face.
We emailed a few times on the site and then decided to go to regular email. He asked for a photo above the knee so I included the profile picture that I use. I also responded to the email he sent me and made some comments, such as him stating that he was looking for a FWB but yet, his original email to me said that yes, he wanted a FWB but he wanted to start as friends.
He replied back that he expected a more intimate photo of me, that he didn’t want a friend, he just wanted a FWB and that if I couldn’t provide such a photo, then obviously I wasn’t going to be willing to have sex anytime soon.
I replied back that he sure made a lot of assumptions, which he is allowed and left it at that. I didn’t get a reply nor did I expect one.
That’s okay though, if that is his opinion, that is fine, I likely would not have been impressed meeting him anyway.