I really do not get why guys feel the need to send penis pictures to people who do not ask for them. i can understand if you are chatting with them on a site that is mostly about sex and they send it in the course of conversation but too often I will meet a guy in a somewhat normal matter and we will move to texting and all of a sudden, I get a picture of his junk. No warning, no asking if I want to see, it’s just there!
Today for instance, I’m chatting with this guy, he decides to ask if I’m horny and all of a sudden, there is the picture. We met on plenty of fish, not a sex site. the conversation was all innocent and I get this picture and he said that he could not help it. Last I knew, a smartphone is not able to send a picture via text all by itself, the owner has to tell it to send it.
Regardless, I gave him crap for it. It’s not that I am necessarily against these types of pictures but I prefer to be asked if I want them or ask for them before i get sent them. Maybe I am at a family event and there are little eyes around, maybe I am at the grocery store chatting with someone, or heaven forbid I am at work and my phone is somewhere that someone might see.
I have talked to a few of my guy friends and asked why guys do this. Some of them don’t know , some said they have done it but only if they were asked, and others sheepishly admitted that they have sent without permission.
I think a lot has to do with guys and their self worth. For some reason, they feel that if they do not have a big/thick/goodlooking penis, they are not any good and by sending a picture, they will hopefully get a positive response. Does society penis shame men the same way they shame women if they are larger than a size 6?