If you are looking online to meet people to date or possibly more, chances are you are going to head to the dating sites. That said, there are a lot of different sites and options out there to find people on. I’m going to give you my reviews and impressions of these
sites. Please keep in mind your results may vary.
Plenty of Fish (POF)
Cost: Free, can pay to upgrade and get advanced features
I have met several people from this site and dated a few for a while. I have mostly met guys who are actually looking for someone to hang out with and date or have a relationship with. Just like any free site, there were a few that messaged for just intimate encounters. POF actually removed this category from the site last year. I’m not sure if it has cut down on that type of messaging though. I did get a sexual message the other day and was able to report it as inappropriate.
You can still flirt, chat and email without having to pay which was the main purpose when this site was created.
Cost: Free, can pay to upgrade for more features
Getting started on OkHarmony takes a while. There are a lot of questions that they want you to answer to get the best results. I do encounter profiles where they didn’t bother to deal with the questionnaires though.
One of my favourite parts of this site is that it will give you an idea of how compatible you are with someone. You get three scores – match, friend, enemy and you determine what is ideal for you. I think that they use all the questions you answer for this and where you are the same you are matches and where you are opposite, you are enemies. Part of the appeal is that if you find someone you are interested in, youc an go through their questions and answers and see how you match up.
You can message and chat for free o this site as well.
Cost: Monthly fee, has free weekends occasionally
You need at least an hour to set up a profile on this site as there are a lot of questions to answer. They say that you are matched with people on scientific research. I’m not sure how much I agree with that based on my matches. I have communicated with a few people on here but have not gotten very far.
When you find someone who is a match, it is advised you go through their guided communication in which there are preset questions that you ask the other person. They then reply and send back their own preset questions. After three or four exchanges, you can then go to an internal email system. That said, I have seen several people who sneak their email address into their profile so people can contact them directly.
Next week I will be posting a review on an adult website, AdultFriendFinder